We all have them in our lives - overacheivers! There's a lovely woman in my life, a friend (but not a close friend) who can do everything. We met through a mutual hobby for which she has a real talent, she's really good. Okay it may help that she can spend much more money on supplies, classes and all the paraphernalia that surrounds creative endeavours, but that's no excuse. She also creates beautiful examples of other crafts effortlessly (can you tell I'm being slightly vague? She would be mortified to know I see her as a rival), bakes wonderful cakes and has a beautiful home which she keeps spotless and clutter free. Did I mention that she always looks effortlessly elegant? No? Well she does.
My son calls her my nemesis because she brings out the worst in me, I become dissatisfied with myself, but not in a positive way that makes me throw out all the clutter, work out to shift those extra inches, learn new skills. All I see are my shortcomings. Why can't I be more naturally creative? Why are my family so untidy? Why do I find it so difficult to get myself organised so that I can make the most of my life? Why can't I be more outgoing and vivacious?
I'm sure there are things about me that make her envious, or so my husband says. I love my life, but I know it could be so much better if I could clean up my act (and my house), lose some weight, make the most of my appearance - generally move my life up to the next level. Is it really hard work for everyone, or do I just not yet have the skills to make it all look so easy?
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